月嫂应该定位于：协助产妇做些粗活，帮助产妇做她不方便做的活。一个孩子的好与坏(这里包括身体是否健康、心理是否健康、智商、情商是否高)，长大是否成才，都与母亲的胎教和出生后每一天的教育、影响分不开。从孩子出生，母爱就一直是孩子成长最重要的因素，孩子减少了母爱的享受，对日后的发育成长会造成许多障碍。
Sister-in-law should be positioned to help mothers do rough work and help mothers do work that she is not convenient to do. Whether a child is good or bad (including physical health, mental health, IQ, EQ) and whether he or she grows up or not are inseparable from the mother's prenatal education and the education and influence of every day after birth. Since the birth of a child, maternal love has always been the most important factor in the growth of a child. Children reduce the enjoyment of maternal love, which will cause many obstacles to future development and growth.